The Sixteen Imperfections of the Mind | The Eight Imperfections : Part 2 Subtle Distortions of Identity

As we continue, the first eight imperfections are loud and easy to recognize. The second eight are quieter. They hide behind respectability and often disguise themselves as confidence or maturity.

These subtler distortions can be difficult to see, but mindfulness gently reveals them. What we are willing to examine loses its unconscious power.

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9. Hypocrisy (Māyā): Presenting oneself as better than one truly is. Mindfulness invites authenticity.

10. Fraudulence (Sāṭheyya): Deception for personal gain. Awareness fosters radical honesty.

11. Obstinacy (Thambha): Rigid refusal to reconsider views. Mindfulness softens identification with opinions.

12. Presumption (Sārambha): Competitive superiority. Mindfulness replaces comparison with cultivation.

13. Conceit (Māna): The measuring mind: better, worse, equal. Awareness dissolves comparison.

14. Arrogance (Atimāna): Inflated self-importance. Mindfulness grounds us in impermanence.

15. Vanity (Mada): Clinging to youth, status, or praise. Awareness reveals change in real time.

16. Negligence (Pamāda): Spiritual carelessness or forgetting. Mindfulness restores diligence and wakefulness.

Negligence, that quiet forgetting, is often the doorway through which the others return. When we forget to pause, forget to breathe, forget that this moment is practice, the mind drifts.

The Buddha’s final exhortation, recorded in the Mahāparinibbāna Sutta, urged diligence and heedfulness. I hear that not as pressure, but as tenderness, a reminder not to drift through this precious life asleep.

What reassures me most is this: the presence of an imperfection is not failure. The willingness to see it is awakening beginning to move.

The presence of an imperfection is not failure. The willingness to see it is awakening beginning to move. Each moment of mindfulness is a quiet turning of the heart toward freedom.

Each moment of mindfulness, each honest recognition, is a quiet turning of the heart toward freedom.

And perhaps that is enough for today.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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The Sixteen Imperfections of the Mind | The First Eight Imperfections — Part 1

As long as I've been a mindfulness practitioner, I do not have to look very far to find these imperfections in my own mind. They appear in small moments, a flash of irritation in traffic, a subtle comparison scrolling online, a quiet resentment I replay longer than I should.

Sometimes I even think that even after all of these years these momentary flashes should have abated by now, but I truly know better. These fleeting instances do not define the practice nor do they define how well I've progressed. Instead they are part of the Sixteen Imperfections of the Mind which are not abstract doctrines; instead they are lived realities.

In the early teachings of the Buddha, particularly within the framework of the five hindrances, we find careful descriptions of the forces that cloud clarity. These teachings are not condemnations but invitations. They help us see what is already happening within us.

Mindfulness (sati) has become a gentle light. It does not scold. It reveals. And when something is clearly seen, it begins to loosen its grip.

1. Covetousness (Abhijjhā): The restless reaching toward what is not present. Mindfulness reveals the instability of desire and cultivates contentment.

2. Ill Will (Byāpāda): Aversion hardened into hostility. Mindfulness exposes its physical and emotional signature and opens the door to loving-kindness.

3. Anger (Kodha): Emotional fire that can be known without being acted upon. Mindfulness creates space between impulse and reaction.

4. Hostility (Upanāha): Sustained resentment. Awareness interrupts the rehearsal of grievance.

5. Denigration (Makkha): Belittling others to protect insecurity. Mindfulness invites honest self-inquiry.

6. Domineering (Paḷāsa): The need to control or assert superiority. Mindfulness replaces striving with steady presence.

7. Envy (Issā): The pain of comparison. Mindfulness transforms comparison into gratitude.

8. Stinginess (Macchariya): Withholding generosity or goodwill. Awareness softens fear and encourages openness.

When I first encountered this list, I felt a subtle discomfort, as if someone had been reading my private thoughts. But over time, I began to see compassion in these teachings. They assume we are human. They assume we struggle. And they offer a path forward.

Mindfulness is not about becoming flawless. It is about becoming honest. Each time we notice an imperfection without identifying with it, something shifts toward freedom.

Be sure to come back in 2 -weeks for part two of this series on The Sixteen Imperfections of the Mind

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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Mindfulness And The Pure Land

Mindfulness and the Pure Land may seem, at first glance, to belong to different worlds within Buddhism. One emphasizes present-moment awareness; the other speaks of a luminous realm presided over by Amitābha Buddha. Yet when we look more closely, these two currents of practice are not separate rivers, they flow into the same ocean of awakening. Mindfulness stabilizes the heart here and now, and Pure Land devotion gives that heart a direction infused with boundless compassion and hope.

Mindfulness, rooted in the teachings of Gautama Buddha, is the steady remembering of what is true. It is the gentle but persistent returning to body, feeling, mind, and phenomena. When we practice mindfulness, we begin to see impermanence clearly. We observe sensations rise and fall, thoughts appear and dissolve, moods shift like weather. In this seeing, clinging softens.

Pure Land practice, especially within traditions shaped by figures like Hōnen and Shinran, centers on entrusting oneself to Amitābha’s vow. According to the Larger Sutra of Immeasurable Life, Amitābha vowed to create a realm, Sukhāvatī, where beings can practice without obstruction and swiftly attain awakening. Reciting the nembutsu (“Namo Amitābha Buddha”) becomes both remembrance and refuge.

At first, mindfulness may appear self-powered, while Pure Land seems other-powered. But in lived experience, both reveal interdependence. When we sit in mindful breathing, are we truly alone? The air we breathe, the body we inhabit, the teachings we rely upon, none of these are self-created. In the same way, calling the Name in Pure Land practice is not passive resignation; it is mindful awareness of our reliance on causes and conditions beyond ego.

Mindfulness prepares the ground for Pure Land devotion by humbling the illusion of control. When we observe the restless mind, we see how difficult it is to sustain clarity through willpower alone. This honest recognition opens the heart to grace, not as supernatural intervention, but as the compassionate fabric of reality itself. In this light, Amitābha represents boundless wisdom and compassion that has always supported us.

Conversely, Pure Land practice deepens mindfulness. When one recites the nembutsu attentively, each repetition becomes an anchor in the present moment. The sound, the breath, the intention, all are known directly. Rather than drifting into fantasy about a distant paradise, the practitioner becomes intimate with the here and now. The Pure Land is invoked not only as a future birth but as a present orientation of trust and gratitude.

Some teachers suggest that the Pure Land can be understood symbolically: a purified mind free from greed, hatred, and delusion. When mindfulness illuminates the mind’s movements, moments of clarity and compassion naturally arise. In those moments, we taste Sukhāvatī here and now. The jeweled ponds and radiant light described in the sutras point toward qualities of awakened awareness, clarity, serenity, and joy.

Others maintain a more literal faith in rebirth in Amitābha’s realm. Even then, mindfulness remains essential. To remember the Buddha at the moment of death requires a lifetime of steady practice. Mindfulness trains us to return again and again, so that remembrance becomes second nature. In this way, present-moment awareness and future aspiration support one another.

In daily life, integrating mindfulness and Pure Land can be beautifully simple. As you wash dishes, silently recite the nembutsu with awareness of the warm water and the movements of your hands. As you walk, feel each step and dedicate it toward awakening for all beings. When difficult emotions arise, notice them gently and entrust them to boundless compassion. The practice becomes embodied, relational, and alive.

Ultimately, mindfulness and the Pure Land converge in the transformation of the heart. Mindfulness clears the fog of confusion; Pure Land devotion fills that cleared space with faith and gratitude. Whether one emphasizes self-cultivation or entrusting to vow, the fruit is the same: a life shaped by compassion, humility, and steady awareness. Here, in this very breath, the gate to the Pure Land quietly opens.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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Your Six Senses And The Material World Around You

In much of the Western world, we are taught that human experience is shaped by five senses: sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. These senses are often presented as the complete framework through which we perceive reality. While this understanding is helpful, it is incomplete when viewed through the lens of Indian philosophy and Buddhist teachings.

In Buddhism, human experience is understood through six senses, not five. The first five are the same as those commonly recognized in Western thought. The sixth sense, however, is the mind, also referred to as the sense center. This is not a supernatural faculty or psychic ability, but a very practical and observable aspect of everyday experience.

In modern language, the sixth sense can be understood as the brain and mental processes that receive and interpret sensory input. It is through this sense center that sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and physical sensations are processed and given meaning. Without the mind, the other five senses cannot create a coherent experience of the world.

For example, the eye may see color and shape, but it is the mind that recognizes “a tree.” The ear may detect vibration, but it is the mind that labels it as “music” or “noise.” In this way, the sixth sense acts as the organizer of experience, allowing us to navigate the world with understanding and perspective.

Because the mind plays this central role, it is also the primary location where suffering begins. When the sense center operates without mindfulness, it reacts habitually. Pleasant experiences lead to craving, unpleasant experiences lead to aversion, and neutral experiences are often ignored altogether.

From these automatic reactions arise attachment, delusion, and wrong view. We begin to believe that experiences are permanent, that they define who we are, or that they can provide lasting satisfaction. These misunderstandings distort reality and keep us caught in cycles of dissatisfaction and stress.

The Buddha taught that by guarding the sense doors, particularly the mind, we can interrupt this cycle. Guarding does not mean suppressing thoughts or avoiding experience, but rather meeting each moment with awareness and restraint. This mindful presence prevents unwholesome reactions from taking root.

Through mindfulness and meditation, we learn to observe thoughts, emotions, and perceptions as they arise and pass away. We begin to see that they are conditioned, impermanent, and not-self. This insight loosens the grip of attachment and weakens the patterns that lead to suffering.

As wisdom develops, the mind becomes less reactive and more spacious. Instead of being driven by craving or fear, we respond with clarity and compassion. The six senses are still active, but they no longer dominate us in the same way.

By understanding the six-sense framework, especially the role of the mind, we gain a powerful tool for liberation. When the sense center is guided by mindfulness and right understanding, it becomes a gateway to freedom rather than suffering. This is the heart of the Buddha’s teaching and a practical path toward lasting peace.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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New Year, Calmer Mind: Rethinking Violent Media

As the New Year gently opens before us, it invites a pause, a moment to look inward with mindfulness and care. Rather than approaching resolutions as self-improvement projects, we can hold them as intentions rooted in awareness. One such intention may be to become more conscious of what we allow into the mind, including the images and stories we consume. Choosing to step away from violent movies and shows can be a quiet yet meaningful act of mindfulness.

From a mindful perspective, violence, even when fictional, does not arise and pass away without consequence. The mind receives images directly, and the body responds accordingly. Scenes of harm, fear, and aggression can tighten the breath, agitate the heart, and disturb inner stillness. Over time, repeated exposure may subtly condition the mind toward restlessness, numbness, or unease, making it more difficult to rest in calm awareness.

Practicing abstinence from violent media can be viewed as a form of mindful restraint, a video consumption diet. 

Just as we pay attention to how food affects the body, we can observe how certain types of viewing affect the mind. This diet is not about denial, but about discernment: noticing what leads to clarity and ease, and gently releasing what leads to agitation and distress.

Mindful viewing invites us to choose content that supports wholesome mental states. Stories that reflect compassion, insight, humor, and human connection can nourish the heart and encourage reflection. 

Films and programs that uplift rather than shock allow the mind to remain spacious, helping us stay connected to empathy and presence even while being entertained.

When violent media is set aside, space naturally opens for other nourishing practices. Sitting quietly with the breath, walking mindfully, reading contemplative texts, or spending time in nature all support a return to simplicity and balance. These activities steady the mind and remind us of a deeper rhythm beyond constant stimulation.

Mindfulness also asks us to be gentle with ourselves. A video consumption diet is not a rigid rule, but an ongoing inquiry. We can notice how different choices affect our sleep, our thoughts, and our emotional tone, learning from direct experience rather than judgment. Each moment of awareness is already part of the practice.

As this New Year unfolds, may our resolutions arise from wisdom and care. By mindfully choosing what we watch, and what we refrain from watching, we protect the heart and cultivate inner peace. In tending to our own minds with compassion and clarity, we participate in a quieter, more wholesome way of living, moment by moment.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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Views We Grasp And The Suffering We Create

Attachment is often understood as a natural part of being human, we care, we prefer, we love. Yet when examined more closely, attachment is also a primary source of conflict, both within ourselves and in the world around us. When we cling to fixed ideas, identities, outcomes, or possessions, we create a subtle tension that shapes how we perceive reality. This tension becomes internal conflict as we struggle against change, uncertainty, and impermanence, and it becomes external conflict as we defend our views against those who see differently.

Internally, attachment manifests as anxiety, fear, and dissatisfaction. We become attached to being right, to being seen a certain way, or to maintaining a sense of control. When reality fails to align with these expectations, the mind reacts with aversion or distress. The more tightly we hold our views, the less flexible and compassionate our inner world becomes. This rigidity prevents us from responding wisely to life as it unfolds, trapping us in cycles of rumination and self-judgment.

Externally, attachment fuels disagreement and division. When we identify strongly with our beliefs, opinions, or group identities, disagreement can feel like a personal threat. Rather than listening openly, we react defensively, seeking to protect our sense of self. In this way, attachment transforms differences into conflicts, hardening boundaries between “us” and “them.” What begins as a simple difference in perspective can escalate into misunderstanding, resentment, and harm.

Mindful examination offers a path out of this cycle. By turning our attention inward, we can begin to notice when a view or belief is accompanied by contraction, agitation, or hostility. These bodily and emotional signals often indicate attachment at work. Asking gentle questions: What am I afraid of losing? What identity am I trying to protect?, helps reveal the underlying clinging that fuels suffering. This inquiry is not about self-blame, but about developing clarity and honesty with ourselves.

We can also examine whether our views promote suffering by observing their effects. Do they lead to kindness, understanding, and connection, or do they generate anger, exclusion, and harm? A view rooted in wisdom tends to soften the heart and open dialogue, even in disagreement. A view rooted in attachment narrows our perspective and justifies unskillful speech or action. Mindfulness allows us to see this difference directly, not as an abstract idea, but as lived experience.

Changing our views does not require abandoning discernment or values; it requires loosening the grip of certainty. Practices such as loving-kindness, reflective journaling, and mindful listening help cultivate humility and openness. We learn to hold our views as provisional rather than absolute, recognizing that they are shaped by conditions and can evolve. This flexibility makes space for empathy and reduces the impulse to dominate or dismiss others.

Ultimately, releasing attachment is not about indifference, but about freedom. When we relate to our views with mindfulness and compassion, inner conflict begins to ease, and our interactions become less adversarial. We respond rather than react, listen rather than defend. In this way, the careful examination and transformation of attachment becomes a powerful practice for reducing suffering—within ourselves and in the shared world we inhabit.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami 

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Mindfulness In The University Students Academic Career

I still keep in touch with one of the universities I was affiliated with. I like to see and learn about the direction they are taking by trying to help the many students they have with earning their degree. This week I was invited to attend their week-long summit and was really delighted to see that they are going to focus on an area that is so often overlooked: human thriving.

As the summit unfolded, I was impressed by the diverse range of sessions designed to foster both personal and academic growth among students, encouraging them to develop resilience, purpose, and a sense of well-being alongside their studies. Engaging with faculty and administration provided valuable insights into the innovative programs being implemented, and I left feeling inspired by the university's commitment to nurturing not only academic excellence but also the holistic flourishing of its community. 

What struck me most was how naturally mindfulness was woven into the week’s conversations. It wasn’t presented as an add-on or a trendy practice, but as a foundational skill, one that helps students slow down, notice their inner landscape, and reconnect with what truly matters. In a world where young people are pressured to constantly perform, this gentle invitation to pause felt both radical and deeply necessary.

Many of the speakers emphasized that thriving doesn’t come from doing more, but from doing with intention. Mindfulness gives students the tools to meet their challenges with clarity rather than overwhelm. By learning to anchor their attention in the present moment, they can navigate stress, manage uncertainty, and cultivate a sense of groundedness that supports both learning and living.

I was also encouraged to see how mindfulness was being integrated into academic mentoring, leadership development, and wellness programs. Faculty shared how mindful pauses at the beginning of classes transformed the learning environment, helping students feel more present and connected. Administrators spoke about offering mindfulness-based resilience trainings to help students develop healthier relationships with technology, deadlines, and the pressure to succeed. 

What became clear throughout the summit is that human thriving is not simply about achieving goals, but about becoming whole. It is about nurturing emotional balance, cultivating compassion, and fostering a sense of belonging, both within oneself and within the community. Mindfulness, in this context, becomes a way of discovering inner spaciousness amidst the busyness of academic life.

I left the summit with a renewed appreciation for institutions that are willing to evolve and prioritize well-being as much as achievement. Witnessing the university take meaningful steps toward creating a mindful, compassionate, and thriving campus reminded me that true education is not only about imparting knowledge, it is about supporting humans in becoming their best, most balanced selves.

If your school is looking for mindfulness resources for your students or is interested in starting a mindfulness program, be sure to contact us. This is a free service as well.

Vladimir

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami

 
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Mindfulness And The Multigenerational Household

Growing up in the United States it’s uncommon to find grandparents living at home. Yes, they do exist here and there and out of all my friends, and people I knew, there were only two households that were multigenerational. The rest were all what we would consider a nuclear family, mom and dad and one or two children.

Before I go further, I want to state that all families that are built on love, trust and safety are wonderful.  What I will bring forward here are some of the advantages of living in a multigenerational home.

As I travel in various communities in Asia, I see firsthand that it is very much the opposite. Here the grandparents or even married siblings all live in the same house. Homes are rarely empty during the day, and someone is always present to care for the grandparents. Children and grandchildren, are very common as well.

Weddings and engagement celebrations as well as funerial services also oftentimes occur in the home too.

What does this have to do with mindfulness?

A lot.

Being around people doesn’t allow for the sense of loneliness or isolation to take hold. It’s not that there isn’t any peace and quiet at home, there is, but a sense of responsibly to caring for relatives and the home doesn’t allow for unhealthy mindsets to take root.

Younger children learn a sense of community and boundaries as well. I all my years and travels I have yet to see a ‘tantrum’. Now, again, I’m not saying tantrums don’t happen, but they must not be as common as one may expect.

My latest travel was to Cambodia where I witnessed and participated in a funeral service. The body, as well as all of the religious traditions, were observed in the home. When the grandfather passed away, the body wasn’t taken away. Instead, it was lovingly prepared at home where it remained for about 5 days until the actual burial.

This situation is an important lesson when it comes to mindfulness and death. It reminds us, and teaches young children, that death is a natural part of life. It will happen to us all.  As we get older, bodies become frailer, and ailments begin to become more prevalent.

In Western society a lot of this is hidden away from young children. As such, when death of a cherished loved one does happen, feelings are not well addressed or handled. Parents often feel the need to ‘protect’ them from natural phenomena not realizing death also comes to the young as well.

This is an important lesson in mindfulness, being aware of and addressing hard feelings appropriately. And the earlier we teach children and young adults how to address these hard feelings with love and compassion instead of with fear and unskillful responses, the better off they will be when they reach adulthood.  

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami

 
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Becoming Radiant And Glorious Like The Morning Sun

In the teachings of the Buddha, each of us holds within a luminous nature, clear, compassionate, and free. Yet, for many, this radiant quality becomes hidden beneath layers of worry, distraction, and the burdens of daily life. Just as clouds obscure the sun without ever diminishing its brilliance, our true light remains present, waiting to be uncovered. To become radiant and glorious is not about striving for external perfection, but about uncovering the natural brilliance already within us.

The path to radiance begins with mindfulness. When we pause and bring awareness to each moment, we allow our busy minds to settle. Like a still pond reflecting the sky, mindfulness makes space for clarity and insight. Through meditation and gentle awareness in daily activities, we begin to dissolve the inner restlessness that dims our light. In this stillness, the heart naturally softens, and our inner glow begins to shine forth.

Compassion is another source of radiance. The Buddha often taught that a compassionate heart shines brighter than jewels, bringing warmth and joy to others. When we extend kindness—even in small, ordinary ways, we polish the mirror of our hearts. Each act of generosity, each moment of patience, removes the dust of self-centeredness and allows our inner brilliance to grow stronger. True glory is not found in domination or recognition, but in a life infused with compassion for all beings.

Equanimity also supports our radiance. Life brings change, loss, and uncertainty, and yet when we meet these shifts with balance, our light remains steady. Like the morning sun that rises regardless of the weather, a mind trained in equanimity does not flicker with every challenge. This steady, centered presence creates an aura of peace that others naturally feel drawn to. In this way, equanimity sustains our radiance even in times of difficulty.

Gratitude is a powerful way of uncovering our natural light. When we recognize the countless blessings, large and small, that sustain our lives, the heart naturally fills with joy. Gratitude transforms ordinary moments into opportunities for wonder and appreciation. A grateful heart glows with contentment, creating a presence that uplifts others. In gratitude, our radiance is not only felt within but also shared outwardly.

Patience, too, nurtures our glorious nature. In a world that often demands instant results, patience allows us to remain steady and gentle with ourselves and others. Just as a flower does not rush to bloom, our awakening unfolds naturally when given time and care. Patience protects us from frustration and restores harmony to our minds, allowing our inner light to grow without force or strain.

Another essential quality is joy. Not the fleeting joy tied to conditions, but the deeper joy of being alive and connected to all that is. This joy is cultivated through practice, through appreciating simplicity, and through resting in the present moment. A joyful heart radiates effortlessly, becoming like the rising sun that brings warmth and light to all beings without discrimination.

Ultimately, becoming radiant and glorious is not a distant goal, but a way of being available to each of us in this very moment. Through mindfulness, compassion, equanimity, gratitude, patience, and joy, we return to the luminous essence of our own being. This is the light that heals, inspires, and connects us to all life. May we each nurture this inner sun so that, like the dawn, our presence brings warmth and hope to a world in need.

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Buddham Saranam Gacchami

 
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Leaving A Toxic Environment

Last week I met with one of our newer practitioners, whom we'll refer to as Jane, who then related a personal conversation they had with their supervisor. The succinct version of the interaction was that after many years upon being transferred to a new project, the supervisor mentioned to Jane was that she was taking more sick time on this new team than she had previously with her former team. The supervisor was not upset but merely making an observation, as Jane has plenty of 'sick time'. 

Even though there was no ill-intent on the supervisors part this still caused Jane to pause.

Had she taken more sick time than usual?

Reflecting on the transfer more mindfully, Jane knew that she would be going from a high stress project to one with little to no stress. But what she did not realize were the mental and physical changes that were going to transpire as a result.

After about a month into the new project Janes mind and body felt 'different'. And this new feeling felt 'odd' and 'uncomfortable' so like anyone she made an appointment with her physician to see if there was anything wrong. After all of the testing, the doctor gave her the good news that all of the results were normal.

This was certainly good news but it did not explain how she was feeling. 

It was not until our weekly meeting that the veil of uncertainty was lifted.

After many years, her mind and body were detoxifying from undue mental stress and she was returning to a more relaxed state of existence.

As we explored more of this new state of balance I made the comparison to someone being severely injured and not knowing about the injury until the situation calmed down. Janes situation was much the same. She did not realize her mind and body were injured until the situation changed for the better. It was akin to her living in a continuous 'fight' mode before to now one where the threat had diminished. 

The 'fight' mode she had been living in, no matter how harmful, had become comfortable.

These same heightened mental and physical responses can happen to anyone, and oftentimes as in Janes example, it was unrealized. 

Some occupations that come to mind are police, firemen, and doctors, but as in Janes case she was not in any of these career fields, she works in a office setting.

But occupations are not the only situations where someone may experience significant stress. 

Consider the spouse or significant other who is in an abusive relationship. 

Or those that have experienced a sexual assault. 

Or someone addicted to alcohol or drugs. 

Or the child who gets bullied at school or even at home. 

Doctors may or may not be trained to ask all types of personal questions so that is where a dedicated mindfulness meditation practice come in. 

Mindfulness and meditation allows one to be aware of even the most minutest of changes in both mind and body. After sufficient skill development a mindfulness practitioner will recognize the agitation, explore it more deeply, and then send it on its way.

Jane continues to meet with me in both one-on-one settings as well as individual meetings and she has progressed very nicely in that time.

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.

Educate Your Mind With The Dharma.
 
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Vladimir warmly and skillfully passes on the Buddhas Dharma to a world in need of loving-kindness, compassion, and empathy for the benefit of all living beings.
 
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On Being 'Insert Emotion Here'.

When we experience an emotion we typically say 'I am angry' or 'I am sad'...or I am whatever emotion is being experienced at the time.

'I am' described a quality that something possesses as part of it's characteristics. For example, a Red Delicious apple will always be red. It will never be orange or yellow. It's coloring will never change. 

Your emotions, on the other hand, will.

You are not always angry, happy, sad, or melancholy. In fact, on any given day you may experience all of these emotions for different lengths of time and even intensities.

A monk best described emotions to me as this: emotions are like tools in a tool box. You only use the right tool for the right job and when you're finished you put the tool back.

Too often we allow ourselves to carry an emotion for far too long. The longer we carry it, the less useful it is. This not only applies to the emotions we consider 'negative' like anger but applies just as much to the 'positive' emotions like elation.

Why is this?

It's simply because we have not realized or accepted the moment has passed. We desire to stay there even if we feel it is hurtful.

All conditions, without exception, have the quality of impermanence. And it is within impermanence that we may take comfort as well.

We may consider impermanence as the 'toolbox' in which our emptions reside. When we need joy we reach into our emotional toolbox and use 'joy'. When we are finished, we simply put it back for future use.

But some toolboxes don't get replaced. Instead the tool, or emotion in this case, stays with the person, much like a toolbelt. After awhile the toolbelt gets full, cumbersome to carry, and noisy as we walk. We no longer need the hammer, but we choose to carry it anyway. 

In other words, we hold on to said 'emotion' too long and it becomes counter productive to living in the moment appropriately, this emotion no longer serves to your advantage. We bring about suffering by attachment. 

Now we may ask how long is a moment. A moment certainly is not a decade, a year, a even a month. To some degree, this depends on the individual circumstance. The death of a dear loved one or a birth may last a week or so. However a graduation may only last a few hours. Making the red light so you are not late to work may only last a few seconds.

It is important for each of us to be sure that we use our emotions appropriately and that we return them to our toolbox so that we do not end up carrying too much of a load in our daily lives. If we do, we end up risking our mental well-being because after all, you are much more than any single emotion.

  

Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.
 
Educate Your Mind With The Dharma.
 
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Vladimir warmly and skillfully passes on the Buddhas Dharma to a world in need of loving-kindness, compassion, and empathy for the benefit of all living beings.
 
To learn more about us and for free mindfulness and mediation resources you are warmly invited to visit: www.bluelotusmeditation.us
 
Looking for a way to help guide others? Become a Blue Lotus Aspirant here: https://bluelotusmeditation.us/continue-your-journey
 
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Mindfulness As A Family Practice

Mindfulness and meditation isn't a way of life that's about solitude or sequestering ourselves from others. In fact, it's very much the opposite. When we look at the purpose of mindfulness and meditation we see that it’s focus is on connections and the easing of suffering. Not only our suffering but others as well.

This inherent nature makes a mindfulness and meditation practice ideal for the family that will help strengthen this vital relationship.

Let's explore ways to include the family.

As is often the situation whenever there's a new aspect involving family it’s not uncommon that we find some resistance. This resistance is often true with teens but may present itself in anyone. As a mindful behavior we don’t force or shame anyone to try these practices.

Be the roll model. It's important to let others witness first hand the benefits that come from a mindfulness practice. But as a reminder, these benefits don't appear over night so be patent.

Here are some wonderful and readily available home examples:

• Let family members visible see you practice mindfulness
• Mindful walking
• Outside and in the home
• Journaling
• Cooking
• Eating
• Cleaning
• Driving
• Shopping
• Talking
• Laundry
• Even meditation

As you mindfully engage these activities invite someone to try any one of the above (or more) mindful actions. For the resistant family member you can even ask them mindful questions nonchalantly.

For example, if you're cutting a carrot for a salad ask them ‘where do you think this carrot came from’? Prompting them to go from the store all the way back to the farm.

Follow up by asking ‘how do you think the body will react to receiving the nourishment from the carrot’?

Continue by asking ask them to cut the carrot, if they’re old enough, and have them describe how it feels to slice it. Is it easy or hard? Is the fragrance pleasing? What about the texture and color?

Like all new ‘habits’ mindfulness may take some time to nurture and to come into its own, and that's OK. Our bad habits are the result of the constant bombardment of our worlds distractions and negativity and wont dissolve in a matter of weeks even. Give it time. Be patient. 

As you slowly progress feel confident in knowing that your family is growing and unfolding from one that was distracted to one that is blossoming.

And as a reminder to you below are only some of the positive outcomes of your families new journey.

Benefits of a family mindfulness practice:

• A more nurturing family relationship
• No yelling or arguing
• Trusting
• Quality time instead of ‘busy’ time.
• Stronger outside relationships too
• Accepting of others
• Empathetic of others
• Compassionate towards others
• Improved grades for school age children

Wishing you continued peace and wellbeing,

 

Vladimir

 

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