Promoting Wellbeing In Any Circumstance
I live in Minnesota and if you are unfamiliar with what our
weather is like in the winter you may be assured it is cold. And snowy. Our temperatures
do hover around the -20 C (-4 F) during this time but often get lower and on occasion
in the low positives. As you may imagine the state is well prepared to handle
what mother nature offers during this season. An abundance of snowplows and
road salt and sand are not in short supply. The state does a well enough job to
be sure of.
Our driveways, well those are a different story. That task is up to us.
Overnight we were gifted by nature about 35 cm (14 in) of
snow. The snow is continuing as I write this too. I have always enjoyed the
snow and still do to this day. Ever since I was a young boy, I would always be
outside with my friends playing in it. From sledding down a nearby hill, to making
snow forts, to snowball fights. I did not easily give in to the cold back then.
But as with significant amount of snow it is necessary to
shovel and clear your driveway. After my morning coffee and breakfast, it was
time to begin.
At first glance the amount of snow may seem insurmountable.
But to think that way would be to water the seeds of negativity. It is not Right Thought.
Instead, I choose to view this important task with
mindfulness and love.
When we are faced with a task that oftentimes may seem to be hard, time consuming, or cumbersome, we are given a wonderful choice.
We may face shoveling with negativity, “Ugh, I hate the snow and I hate
the cold. And I hate shoveling snow’.
Or we may face shoveling with positivity, “How fortunate I am to be outside and how pretty the snow is but I need to remove it from the driveway for my family’s safety in case of an emergency’.
Whatever choice you chose is up to you but with either decision you still must shovel snow.
If you choose the negative mindset, you are more likely to not engage the task with mindfulness and the final product is sloppy.
This
would not be Right Though and continuing with this mindset waters thoughts and
emotions like criticism and anger. You are not truly living in the present
moment because you are busy chastising nature rushing a necessary task.
Whereas if you view this action with positivity, you are
cultivating Right Thought and the nurturing thought and emotions such as
joyfulness, awareness, and love. You are living in the present moment and
completing the task with mindfulness.
The same awareness can be brought to when it comes to
driving in the snow. First, you do want to make sure conditions such as
visibility are sufficient or that roads are not too icy. Again, you have two
options, you can view this as a negative which does not promote wellbeing. Or
as a positive which does promote wellbeing. And that is the beauty of what we
are offered in life, choice.
And that is also the beauty in what we offer ourselves.
I wish you peace and ease,
Vladimir